Friday, November 3, 2006

African American Barbershop Culture

Larry and Sandra, a common history

Sandra and Larry have been married for 20 years. Sandra wants the separation, while Larry is hoping to smooth things over.

'How can you hope to avoid separation? 'is unleashed Sandra and Larry' do not love me, do not try anything. you going every time I need to talk to you! 're cold and heartless! .. I'm tired of you and try to go every time alone. It's over! '.

Sandra does not realize that she with this attitude contributes to the inexorable separation . and think it's just the fault of the husband. is convinced to have done everything possible to enhance intimacy, communication and dialogue between them. It is he who has always opposed a strenuous resistance. But what Sandra does not see is that men need moments of solitude, the 'so-called' 'spaces', which finds its freedom, its autonomy. At a certain point, however, he returns from his wife. According to Sandra, but Larry was leaving because he did not care anything about her. Never would have thought that once again would be willing to listen.
If Sandra had understood this, probably could have saved the report with her husband.

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